Falling out of love with the wedding planning process...?!😔💻

Hey Bridal Diaries Gang!

It’s Suhani! How are you? How’s Wedmin going?

Feeling stressed? Trust me, this is SO normal and not talked about enough. As you dive into the amazing (and chaotic, am I right?) whirlwind of wedding planning, we know it’s easy to get swept away into it all. After a while, the wedmin starts to pile up and the pressure of making the right choice, not going over budget and having to pay invoices starts to take its toll and the excitement you once felt feels like a distant memory. So if you find yourself reading this newsletter feeling a bit depleted, please know this is in fact normal and you are NOT alone. Amidst all the dress fittings, wedding venue hunting, cake and food tasting, the number one thing on the list is to prioritise YOU.

Here’s some gentle reminders and tips on self-care & stress management to help you navigate the magical wedding journey. Don’t worry girls and guys, there’s still plenty of time to turn this around!

Take some time out of your busy schedule to pamper yourself. You deserve it. Whether for you that means running yourself a bath and finally putting that bath bomb to use or going for a run, it’s so important to carve some time out for yourself and make self-care a non-negotiable part of your routine. 

I find that exercise has an incredible superpower (once you’re on the other end of it haha!) to shift stagnant energy or the funk you find yourself dipping into. Take this as your sign from the universe to move your body. Whether you prefer a walk, hitting the gym or even dancing around the living room with your favourite music on, find an activity that gets you moving and makes you feel good!

As humans when we feel overwhelmed, the first thing we begin to do is neglect ourselves. Don't forget to fuel yourself with nutritious food that energises you. Incorporate all those healthy greens and lean proteins into your diet to keep your energy levels up. Or occasionally if you fancy a slice of pizza and a glass of wine, have it because life truly is about balance! You will wake up the next day thanking yourself (and us) for it. 

If you can’t keep yourself accountable for self-care, maybe take up a hobby that you know you have time for and which calms you down! Some examples are: Painting - I’m a huge fan of painting and trust me my painting skills are not Van Gogh-esque at all but you can order paint by numbers online (linked here). During lockdown, this was my de-stresser hobby and I loved it! Other examples could be crocheting, scrapbooking the wedding journey with your significant other, colouring, gardening or even cooking and baking. Make it a rule when you’re doing this hobby, wedding planning mode is turned off! This will allow you to recharge and refresh. If you give the painting a go, let us know how it goes!

Okay, hear me out on this one because I know some of you may be thinking but how Suhani? Practising mindfulness can be anything you want it to be. I am a lover of journaling, that’s what works for me but that might not be your cup of tea. It might be deep breathing exercises, meditation or simply doing something that allows you to focus on the present moment. 

Needless to say but surround yourself with supportive friends and family who lift you up and make you smile. When you’re in your wedding planning bubble, we often spend less time with our loved ones so take a break from planning and spend time with loved ones, catch up and laugh, your battery will be refuelled in no time!

You don’t have to do it all on your own! Don’t be afraid to delegate tasks to your trusted friends, family members or wedding planners. Remember it’s okay to ask for help when you need it. A problem shared is a problem halved guys!

Self explanatory one but often when you’re caught up in the midst of it, you forget the simplest of things. Try not to sweat the small stuff. Remember on the day, when it all comes together and trust me it will, the most important thing is the love you share with your partner, not the colour of the napkins. 

Your mental and emotional wellbeing are just as important as every other aspect of your wedding planning journey. So be kind to yourself, prioritise self-care, don’t forget to enjoy every moment of this very special time in your life and for days where you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, let this newsletter be a reminder that everything will turn out GREAT!

Happy Planning!

Also P.S Happy Valentines Day in advance!

Love,

Suhani 🤍

Team Pristine 🖤